Oh, yes, danmei is ... well, I would not call it progressive by any means. The women are nonexistent at best. The Chinese smut ban means all the (nonhet) smut is being hosted on the other side of the Great Firewall. Fanfic's gone to AO3, but I don't know about original works.

I want to send Lan Wang Ji for sex ed ngl.
10/10 would read the fic. Please write it.