Another part of my antipathy for Lan Wangji and the central ship is that I've heard what the author has said of it: "ideal relationship" with a "perfect boyfriend" and um... Lan Wangji is very far from my ideal relationship partner
Oh yes, I totally agree!

And I actually really ship Wei Wuxian with Jiang Cheng. They need all the happy AUs (especially b/c of something that hasn't been translated yet, iirc)! And yeah, Wei Wuxian/Wen Ning would also work.