extrapenguin

The "So, You Want To Write A PWP?" appendix A to my exchange letters.

I'm really, really, really into D/s, and would consider it sort of the basis of everything. Also, power. I kink on power differentials so bad.

Stuff I enjoy: submission. Subs (esp. men) being psychologically torn apart (and put back together). Subs turning into overstimulated whimpering messes.

Breathplay. Knifeplay (or swords/other bladed implements). Dom squeezes sub's throat/holds knife to sub's throat. Power trip/powerlessness trip.

D/s with the sub being reduced to a pliant heap on the ground. Not as a lifestyle, though (This one's weird - so.... A commander/subordinate relationship with lots of sir-ing? Delicious. Bringing a BDSM master/slave relationship out of the bedroom without a supporting non-bedroom context? Nah. :))

I'm a sucker for loyalty kink, intersecting with anything else, and on its own. Also powerplay – and the unhealthy versions of both, where A has an unhealthily unwavering loyalty and B just expoits them. The idea of saying no/being able to say no just does not occur to A, that sort of thing. (B might care – or not.) Powerplays and mindfucking, whether in bed or out of it. Cavalier but not careless use of personal power.

Tentacles, tentacle rape, and oviposition: also welcome.

But what are your comfort limits?
No permanent physical harm, no brain damage, no cutting the skin.
If I've written something, I'm comfortable with that level of the thing.
Well there's this one that I wrote that's pretty much the limit on twisted-up-and-broken-down loyalty abuse. Also the mark to aim for, I think.

msub

In addition to all of the above, I like butt stuff: penetration with dicks, dildoes, fingers, butt plugs.

fsub

In addition to all of the general stuff, boob play: spanking, pinching, etc; nipple sucking, biting, pinching. Cunnilingus with a twist of pain. Cunt spanking. Vaginal penetration. Clit pinching.